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Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by whymenow

whymenow — Sun, 13 May 2012 19:05:14 +0000

A old friend find me on FB .. who liked me alot it seem we talked back and forward I finally want to visit him and I fall in love with him….It hit me like a mad truck…His married with kids I know it was wrong and I was not asking for him to leave his family for me …My problem is I can’t stop thinking about him & I know it’s wrong but my heart don’t know. I told him how I feel, He’s acted as if I’m lied to him about my feeling I give that hurt as much ..knowing I will never have him.

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by d3mha

d3mha — Sat, 12 May 2012 21:07:58 +0000

I regret that i didn’t make a move earlier.. things could be different :(
but i guess regretting now gets me nothing but sadness

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by Daniel

Daniel — Tue, 08 May 2012 01:02:13 +0000

I know all ur pain. Me and my girlfriend have been dating since 7th grade. We had our lives “planned” but she said that she was talking to an old friend and she was wanting to hang out with him. Well i had to work so i couldn’t join them. I figured that our love was strong enough that i didnt think to much about it. Then while im working she calls to say that she is leaving me for him. I tried to save our relationshi but she decided she didnt want me. Ive been hurting ever since.

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by hurting

hurting — Mon, 07 May 2012 00:15:22 +0000

i’m going through the same thing, ive been in love with the same person for nearly 2 years. It feels as if someone has ripped my heart out and stood on it. I get told all the time that i will get over him eventually and yes id like to believe i will. Falling in love with someone you became friends with is never a good idea. i have been through so much with him, so much pain we’ve both equally shared. the thought of what we could have had now kills me. I haven’t spoken to him in over a month now and i still wait for that text, he knows what hes doing to me and how much a care. Even though hes has a gf in the 2 years ive been in love with him he still always comes back to me. I dont know what to do, i have never in my life felt so inlove with someone it actually hurts, he hurts me nowadays without even trying to. i cry nearly everyday because everything i do reminds me of him. He is in my thoughts constantly. i know why he feels we cant be together but hes scared and has admitted it himself. when i last saw him he kissed me knowing fine well how i felt, he said he wanted to see if the feelings were still there and said they were but two days later he told me he couldnt do it. my heart stops everytime i think of it. Hes my everything! i do stupid things to make him see my name and i post stupid things to make him think. i dont know how im going to ever get over him, i cant see my life without him, am so scared to loose him and he isnt even mine :’( there are only 2 people who know everything about me and him and everything ive been through. i wish i hadnt went through what i did last year because at least now id have a part of him :(
i know he will know its him if he reads this and i dont care. if he ever misses me i want him to let me know because i miss him every minute of everyday! life is too short to let go of the one you love so i know i will hold onto him for as long as i can. he means so much to me and i love him with all my heart…. “to the moon and back”
i dont know how to get over him because hes effected every part of my life.

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by evee

evee — Fri, 04 May 2012 14:54:52 +0000

ggirl,if you have discovered that you do not want to marry then walk away. the relationship may have been something of a convienience for you and now you find yourself free of the norm and it’s liberating. i married someone who was convienient for me th marriage lasted less than a year, i knew i didnt want to marry him but allowed outsiders to decide what was best for me and did as they wished… follow your heart and your intuition and you will find the answers within

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by g-girl

g-girl — Thu, 03 May 2012 22:20:47 +0000

I am currently engaged to be married after 5 yrs of being in the relationship and its due in a few months. But my family disagrees with it and up to now still hoping I would change my mind. He is working abroad now and he has been away for a year. When he was away I had time for myself and I realized, I was very dependent of him. And in those times I was madly in love with him, I was not myself. And now we are away, I begun to realized his imperfection, immaturity and unreasonable thinking and my longing for marriage seems to fade. I am confused right now, as my life as been easier without him. I feel happier about myself, although I love him but I love myself more without him…. Needs help?

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by evee

evee — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 14:12:41 +0000

i am a certified mess… i met this guy 4 years ago and instantly fell in love. we became friends and spent everyday together. more and more our relationship grew but i never told him how i felt. then my life fell apart and i had nowhere to live. he offered for me to come and stay with him and his roommate. we talked about getting an apt together and seeing where things went. mind you there are several years between us in age and im older. the longer i stayed with him and the roomate the more scared of my feelings i got and the more afraid i got the more it seemed his feeling grew for me as well. one night when i was in his room we carried our relationship somewhere that petrified me, i told him i had to leave and the next day i did. i gave into my fear. periodicly we had phone contact but i was gone for a year and returned to the area where he was still living not telling him i was back. but he found out and showed up 2days later.we seen each other off n on for about 4 months but then i started seeing him everyday. my roommate was an abusive alcholic and he offered me again to come n stay with him, so i did to be in a safer calmer environment. i still love him with all my heart and over these last 3weeks we are as close as ever. he says he doesnt want the relationship. he is afraid ill hurt him again and that he “cant” love me? he sure doesnt act like someone who doesnt love someone???? he is the one person including my parents who ever worried about me and what i was going through, he always makes me smile even when the days are hardest to get through. i dont know what to do? can anyone help me?

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by cassandra

cassandra — Fri, 27 Apr 2012 03:49:53 +0000

whats really sad it is when you go crazy over a guy that didn’t love you enough to be with you it was just good freaking sex.I mean you really lost it cut your hair off, start doing stupid things and always feeling angry and depress, you fell in love with someone and you thought the feeling was mutual, and you start to think maybe that person allowed people to influence him on how he should feel and he doesn’t have the ball z to stand-up
for what he feels and want so he runs away from love. when that person know ya were meant to be together.but despite all that you feel like a fool for even falling for him because if he really loved you and really wanted you he would be here next to you.but it hurts and i will never put myself out there again but i find myself still thinking about him and feelings for him still lingers. he a sucker for not taking a stand when you in love it don’t let nothing or no one stand in the way of it i just wanna get over him but seems hard to do

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by bob

bob — Wed, 25 Apr 2012 02:27:26 +0000

Circumstances made it impossible for me to be with a girl I loved. I have not seen her for a year now, and followed all the advices listed above–no reminders, no photos, etc. Still haven’t forgotten her.It has become a less painful, but I just can’t be with anyone else, because I remember her. Basically I will never be able to have a relationship with a girl again if this continues. Will time eventually make it go away? So far, a year has not helped.

Comment on Falling in love with someone you can’t have by Liz

Liz — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 03:08:56 +0000

i am crazy in love with my best friend, she is a girl. We been together for 6 years. Now she telling she is not in love with me anymore, but only like a friend. It is killing me inside, because I can’t have her anymore. What can I do to have her back with me??/